THE ART OF CONFLICT
I wrote an article for professional beauty, a little while ago, and since then I've had many conversations with my friends about how to resolve conflict from passive aggressive mother in law's, to turbulent romantic relationships, to issues with family. So, based on my memory of Ken Blanchard's book 'The One Minute Manager' that is the basis for all my conflict resolution that I read many, many moons ago (at least ten years), here is the advice I've been sharing with my friends to help give them the skills, confidence and structure to help them face conflict and WIN!!!
It takes 30 days to make a new habit, so for best results monitor this closely for a month. Give praise when you see the other person respecting your new boundary. If they cross it, have another discussion and re-affirm the boundary. And finally, enjoy the more loving, positive and truthful relationship that you’ve co-created!
The full article is here http://professionalbeauty.realviewdigital.com/?iid=150848#folio=112
Much love and light,